the woman I wanna marry must be a Virgin!

the Exclamation mark in the title above , is only for those who live a western type of life , and who usually don't believe in God , or they are just putting their ethics on the shelf .

Cause even if you don't want to consider this matter religiously you should consider it
Ethically ,do you agree for your daughter to do love with someone whom you don't know
even if she is in her legal age , I know it's her choice , but in this she would be loathed and considered ultra-liberal ,

Even if the community and the family are not Implying any pressure , this thing has a lot of later on complications , for example , bearing an Illegal child , which nobody will be responsible for , or getting some STD's or other diseases that's usually hard to cure, and make her life miserable if she wont find anybody to support her financially and psychologically especially if she's still a teenager

This is one the perils of the western societies , that breaks up the family and creates distant people of no connection in between , Individuals who wants to lead a purely Individual life
and this is what the captilasim is looking for , you should everything by your own dont lend or share anything

I have discussed this matter with some people of western background , they don't have any problem , if their wife has previous physical love experience , and they say that would be better
for you cause you wont require to teach her how to do this or that !! , for me I can't somenthing like this , it's not ethical nor religious

Virginity as per the dictionary (wordweb) means: A person who has never had sex
and usually people do agree that sex means here an Intercourse , but the problem
is that the man or the woman can have sex without being able to detect or to examine
like for example the oral one or the other types that don't include penetration to the vagina
in this case they are clinically considered virgin which defies the logic , so the definition could be rewrote here : It's the desire and the act of having an Intimate closeup bodily relation between two people usually from different sexes .

But this definition loses it's meaning when it comes to legal matters cause legally you have to be able to proof what the other claims against you , or have a tangible evidence like a video footage

so the best thing is to be true to ourselves , and lead a life of purity and transparency so that people and community and the family and most Importantly yourself can be satisfied about your life.