
Anything you do in this life you have to have a reason to do it
Not doing it first then , find out a reason that might fit the action
This totally wrong and unacceptable , one more important thing is that
You have to be convinced first about the reason you are trying the others
to convince with otherwise you'll be a week negotiator , and In order to
Reach that level you have to be knowlegable about the subject you are engaged with
otherwise people can take advantage of the weak position you are try to defend
and you'll be lead by them .